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Read Body Language
Read Body Language
- Doesn't matter whether she is interested in you, you'll
make her interested eventually anyway:) But look for these
signs to show you whether you're already making progress:)
It's also fun to look for these signs as a by-stander, either
in everyday situations or for example in a bar - when the
guy earnestly believes he is being sooo smooth but the woman
he is talking to isn't displaying any of the signs presented
below, you can't help but have a chuckle about it:) Body language
is very simple to understand but there is A LOT to take in
(as you can see from the length of this section) but once
you have learnt the basics, there will be no stopping you.
Her lips:
- Big smiles with upper and lower teeth showing with a
relaxed face.
- Biting of the lips or showing of the tongue, licking
her lips or touching of her front teeth.
- She wets her lips, some women use only a single-lip lick,
wetting the upper or lower lip, while others run the tongue
around the entire lip area.
- She puts her fingernail between her teeth.
- She protrudes her lips and thrust her breasts forward.
Her eyes:
- She gazes in your eyes with deep interest and her pupils
are dilated.
- She raises both eyebrows exaggeratedly for a couple of
seconds, this is often combined with a smile and some eye
contact.
- She winks at you while talking to you or winks at you
from a distance.
- While talking to you, she blinks more than usual, fluttering
her eyelashes.
- Eyebrows raised and then lowered, then a smile indicates
interest in you.
Her hair:
- She pushes her fingers through her hair. This can be one
hand movement or more of a stroking motion.
- She twirls her hair around her fingers while she is looking
at you.
- She is throwing her hair back off her shoulders.
Her clothing:
- If she is wearing clothes that show her nipples underneath
and you notice they are getting perky and erect.
- The hem goes up to expose a little more leg.
- She is fixing, patting or smoothing her outfit to make
herself look better.
While she is seated:
- She moves in time to the music, with her eyes on you.
- She starts sitting straight up and her muscles appear
to be firm.
- She is sitting with her legs open.
- She sits with her legs crossed in a manner to reveal her
thigh.
- Her legs are rubbing against each other.
- Her legs are rubbing against the leg of the table.
- Her crossed leg is pointed towards you or if that same
leg is rocking back and forth towards you.
Her hands:
- She exposes the palms of her hand facing you.
- While talking to you, she rests an elbow in the palm of
one hand, while holding out her other hand, palm up.
- She rubs her wrists up and down.
- She sits with one hand touching one of her breasts.
- She rubs her chin or touches her cheek. This indicates
that she's thinking about you and her relating in some way:)
- She is fondling keys, sliding hands up and down a glass,
playing with toys or other things on the table.
- She plays with her jewellery, especially with stroking
and pulling motions.
- She touches your arm, shoulder, thigh, or hand while talking
to you (in case you already haven't started kino yourself,
dumbass:).
- She is pretending to look at her watch as you pass her.
Her voice:
- She raises or lowers the volume of her voice to match
yours.
- She speeds up or slows down her speaking to match yours.
- She laughs in unison with you.
- In a crowd she speaks only to you and focuses all of her
undivided attention on you.
Miscellaneous:
- She mirrors your body language and body positions.
- Her skin tone becomes red while being around you.
- She blows smoke straight out from between her lips and
toward you.
- She leans over and speaks into her friend's ear, just
like in junior high school.
- She is standing with her head cocked slightly at an angle,
one foot behind the other, hips slightly thrust forward.
- At a party - every once in a while she seems to appear
out of nowhere in your vicinity and if you move to another
spot, soon she appears out of nowhere again, you catch her
glancing in your general direction (actually, glancing at
YOU dummy!:), she bumps into you… accidentally, touches
you… accidentally etc:)
When talking to a girl, these are some of the more important
signs to watch for:
- Can you keep conversation going with her?
- Does she react well to kino?
- Does she touch you?
- Does she laugh?
- Now I don't have to explain what the answer "yes"
to these questions means, do I:)
All these signs usually tell you that the girl is captivated
by your charms. But before you get there, chances are that
her body language changes as the discussion progresses. Make
sure that you watch her closely and as soon as you get a sign
that should be an indication that you are on the right track,
keep going in that direction. If the opposite happens, just
change the subject and see what happens."
Update. The really gorgeous and beautiful girls however
very seldom get around to displaying the signs of interest
described above. They simply don't have to, as they are used
to getting some attention already long before that. With such
girls you have to be on a lookout for the initial and thus
much more subtle signs of interest. One example of this would
be a gorgeous girl simply looking at your face. Obviously
people tend to look at what or whom they like to look at.
But whereas an average girl first just looks at your face
and then progresses into the more overt signs of interest
described above, looking at your face from time to time might
be the only sign of interest you'll ever get from the most
beautiful of girls.
So if you think you're not getting any signs of interest
from beautiful girls - you are, but you just can't see them
well enough yet.
Update. Here are signs of interest sent from across
the room. Most are applicable to both sexes. The sequence
of the list approximates the courtship sequence.
I'M INTERESTED
Sidelong glance(s)
Looks at you a few times
Holds your gaze briefly
Downcast eyes, then away
Posture changes to alert
Preens, adjusts hair, attire
Turns body toward you
Tilts head
Narrows eyes slightly
Smiles
Matches your posture
Eyes sparkle
Licks her lips
Thrusts breasts |
DON'T BOTHER ME
Never sneaks a peek
Fleeting eye contact
Looks away quickly
Looks away, eyes level
Posture unchanged
Does no preening
Turns body away
Head remains vertical
Eyes remain normal
Neutral, polite face
Posture unchanged
Normal or dull eyes
Keeps mouth closed
Sags to de-emphasize breasts |
In Summary. Frequency of eye contact, the more the better.
Amount of time she, or he, holds your gaze, the longer the better.
How she breaks off eye contact, down before away is great! Shine
of the eyes, the brighter the better. Direction of body, toward
you, good, away, bad. Overall posture, erect and alert are good.
Tilt of head, vertical is bad, increased tilt is great. Where
the drink is held, high in front as a barrier, that's bad. Hand
activity, clenched, squeezing or pinching is bad, open, caressing
or stroking is great.
Most of us are slightly afraid as well as somewhat excited
in settings where social interaction is expected and required.
So, most people do not sit or stand in an open posture. But,
during courtship, the more open the other person's posture
is, the more open that person is to you and your advances.
And, the more open you are, the more likely the other person
is to open up to you. First Conversation Signals. Men, pay
attention to all the ways she communicates during the first
few minutes as you talk with her.
KEEP TALKING
Alert, energetic
Pupils dilated
Gradually opens posture
Lowers drink
Touches self gently
Caresses objects
Crosses and uncrosses legs
Flashes of palm
Crossed legs steady
Dangles shoe on toe
Hands never touch face
Touches you any reason
Feet firmly on floor
Loosens anything
Leans forward
Steady hands, feet |
MOVE ON
Tense, restless
Normal or small pupils
Posture remains closed
Keeps drink high
Grips or pinches self
Squeezes, taps objects
Legs remain crossed
Back of hand gestures
Swings crossed legs
Keeps shoe on
Touches face
Never touches you
Feet on edges or toes
Tightens anything
Leans away
Tapping, drumming |
In social settings, most of us start out in a closed, defensive
posture because we're a bit apprehensive. A closed posture
feels safe. When the person you are talking with shifts to
a more open posture, it signifies trust and comfort. That
person is, literally, opening up to you and what you have
to offer.
It takes courage to open up to the other person. If you go
first, she, or he, will usually follow your move from closed
to slightly more open. Open up in, slow, gradual shifts of
posture.
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